Posts Tagged ‘media’

Social Media Addiction

Are we becoming a society that misses out on the real world because we are so focused on the online world of social media? Here’s how I see it.

This morning, I arrived at my bank about 10 minutes before it opened. I stood in front of the bank building breathing the fresh clean autumn air and was enthralled by the sun glistening on the leaves of the three magnificent magnolia trees across the street. I turned my attention to the autumn color bursting forth from several other trees as I wondered about how they kept the entire area so pristine.  Several early morning exercise-seeking walkers and joggers greeted me with a hearty “good morning”. It was truly a magnificent morning.

A few minutes after I arrived at the bank a young man drove up in his truck. He was quite obviously also waiting for the bank to open. I noticed that he was intent on thumb typing on his smart phone. At exactly 9 am when he emerged from his truck I asked what he had been doing. He replied that he was checking his Facebook page and accessing Twitter on his smart phone.

This is the regrettable side effect of today’s technology.  While this fellow was engaged in social media on his phone, he was missing the real world and real people.

His actions are quite typical of twenty- and thirty- somethings in today’s world. At a garage sale that I held recently, I had a lot of wonderful people who were friendly and talkative, but I also had several young people who never even said hello to me because they were engaged in conversations on their cell phones. I also recently met a girl who said she went into a panic because she found herself in a line at the grocery store and was without her cell phone. She would normally check her Facebook and Twitter pages if she found herself with a few extra minutes of time. In fact, she routinely checked her Facebook and Twitter pages whenever she was stopped at a red light.

I realize that online social media is a big draw today. In fact, you can hardly be in business today if you don’t have a Facebook or Twitter account.  Where five years ago we were seeing advertising with Internet addresses everywhere, today we are seeing advertising with “See our Facebook Page” at the bottom.

Everyone is flocking to these websites where you befriend and follow people. You may know these people in real life, but more often than not, they are simply online acquaintances.  Getting to know these people and to communicate with them can be great fun. I have a ton of Facebook friends and several of them have even turned out to be friends in the real world. But when these online relationships become so important that we miss the beauty of the real world and interactions with real people, it seems that it is a case of technology gone wrong.

Every day I see teenagers so engaged with texting on their cell phones that they walk out into traffic. I see people who drive poorly because they are talking on the cell phone.  I see people in the grocery store having a conversation through their Bluetooth ear piece while ignoring the other people in the store and while actually aggravating others with their loud conversations with their invisible friends.

I love technology, but we need to control technology rather than have it control us. The use of social media can become an addiction. We need to engage in the real world. And we need to teach our children that online relationships can never replace real relationships.

Please feel free to add your comments. I’d love to know what you all think.

Pluzit Share Your Website

With today’s Internet tools anyone can have a website. It’s fairly easy to do, yet as time goes by, a lot of work goes into your website….adding content and keeping every thing updated. Your website becomes a living, growing thing that has a lot to offer visitors.

You know that website visitors will recommend your websites to others, but you have to make that easy for them to do. That’s where this website tool will help. The Pluzit tool allows your website visitors to easily  Bookmark and Share your website. Pluzit will put clickable links on the sidebar or the bottom of your webpage allowing your web visitors to  share your website through many different social media websites. You can list Google, Facebook, Twitter, My Space, Delicious, Newsvine, Slashdot, Spurl, and many more. There are about 260 different sharing services that you can use. You get to choose which ones you want to show up on your webpage. There is even a useful “email” button, so if you visitors aren’t into social networking, they can still recommend your site to others via email. Your web visitors simply clicks on one of these Bookmark Buttons and recommends your site to others. This allows you to share your website content directly from your webpage.

Pluzit also offers free analytics so you can see how many visitors have clicked on your Pluzit links. Pluzit makes it easy to implement this system. You simply click on “Get The Pluzit Button”, then copy and paste the code they give you into your website. There is even a Videotour that explains in detail exactly how to do it.

Pluzit also has a Pluzit button that allows you to share a website directly from your browser. Just click on “Pluzit for Surfers” to install this browser plugin. It is available for Internet Explorer and Firefox. Once installed, when you visit a website that you like you can use the Pluzit button that appears on your browser toolbar to bookmark that site and/or to subscribe to its feeds.


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